Question:
Dear Snippie,
I found out that my husband looks at porn when I'm not around. This really makes me feel insecure because I can never compete with the girls he's looking at. Is this considered cheating? How should I handle it without embarrassing him or me?"
Answer:
I understand how you feel. I once had a boyfriend do this to me too. I don't mind porn but I do mind when you hide it and pretend you weren't looking at it when you were. I think as long as the guy is honest about looking at it it's fine. There's no reason to be insecure about your man watching porn. He's with you and loves you. I don't believe this is cheating at all. I think talking to him about it in a nice way and just letting him know how you feel is the way to go. Let him know that you feel insecure. Maybe he can help you feel better by reassuring you . But communication is the key.
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