Question:
I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time yesterday but it didn’t go as I thought. For some reason I just didn’t feel turned on. It was the first time I used a condom and I think that might of been the problem. It was really tight and uncomfortable, to the point where it totally turned me off. Does this normally happen? And is there a different solution or specific condom you think would work better?

Answer:
Maybe your condom was too small. Try a larger size. Then it won’t be too tight. You don’t want the condom so tight that it cuts off the blood circulation.

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Question:
Most guys like it when a girl is shaved down there. I myself have tried it multiple times but each time it didn’t look so great down there a few days later. I mean, the first day its all nice and smooth and maybe the second day it will be too, but the third day those horrible hair bumps start to pop up and make your nether region not so pleasant to look at, and sometime those bumps will stay for at least a week or longer. So my question is this, how do you shave down there without getting those nasty hair bumps?

Answer:
I know exactly what you’re talking about. The first day is great but after that hell happens. So waxing is an option. I have never gone there and probably never will. Trimming is good. I trim a lot. But nothing is better than a newly shaved vagina. So basically I have the same issues with bumps and don’t know an answer. Maybe the readers do. Cross your fingers!

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Question:
After sex, my boyfriend can never go again right away. In fact, it usually takes him a full 45 minutes to get going again, by which point, the moment is dead, buried, and forgotten. I’ll admit, I’m a little uneducated in the workings of the male body, but from what I’ve been told, and from past experiences, I thought guys as young as he is (he’s 20) should have the ability to have sex multiple times, with less of a refractory period. Is it physical or psychological? And if it’s all in his head (the one on top of his shoulders), is there anything I can do to fix it?

Answer:
It’s different for every male. Most women are lucky if they have a man that’s able to go and go without stopping. In my experience not a lot of men can just go and go like the energizer bunny. Most men have to wait at least 30 minutes before they can go again. There’s nothing wrong with him. If you do want to keep going though switch to foreplay after you finish the first time. The waiting time might lessen if he gets turned on. Maybe during those 30 minutes he can work on you.

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Question:
When is it too soon to start spicing up your sex life? Hubby and I have been married for over two years, and dated for three years before that– having sex the whole time, we jumped right on it from the start basically– he was too hot to wait for.

Answer:
You can start whenever you want!! But I do think it’s best when you are comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Because then you won’t feel embarrassed or hold back. I think if you’ve been married for 2 years and you’re still madly in love than you can start as soon as you want to. Go to a local sex shop together and pick out some things. It’s fun! If you’re too shy to go to a store then shop online together. Experimentation and communication are the best things you can have in your sex life.

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