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Wow, how open of you to allow someone into your relationship. I think in order for you to have this vacation go the way you want it to you need to talk to her before you go. Explain to her that you want to be able to have some alone time with your husband and for her not to take it personally. If you have activities already planned you can let her know which ones you want her to attend and which ones you don't. But I definitely think you need to talk with her before you go and lay down the ground rules so it's not so awkward once you get there.

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I'm afraid I'm incapable of having an orgasm. I'm only 18 and I've heard from some people that most woman don't obtain an orgasm until they are in their 20's. However, when I touch my clit I feel absolutely nothing. And I know that its supposed to be super sensitive, but its the same thing as if I was touching my fingers. Nothing special. It usually takes a lot for a guy to please me, but I've never even gotten close to an orgasm and I don't want this to affect my sex life later on in life.

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I have been with my current boyfriend for about 10 months.  He is my first serious boyfriend and I am hoping we will eventually get married.  However, I am 24 and a virgin.  We've talked about the physical side of our relationship and I told him at the time that I was just not ready to have sex.  I recently told him that I might be ready to try and we experimented with it a little bit, but when we did I was afraid again and had to tell him to stop.   I want to please him and I KNOW the frustration men have when they can't be satisfied sexually and I feel terrible.  He has not placed any guilt on me for this and he has been very understanding but I can't help but feel bad about it.   Am I just being prudish and a coward?  Should I just let this stupid fear go and give it a try or should I just wait until I'm truly ready?  I don't know how long it might be before I am. 


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You are not prudish or a coward. This is your decision to make. Don't let anyone make this decision for you. You'll know when it's right for you. There won't be any question in your mind. So just be patient and if your boyfriend can't be patient with you then maybe you should rethink your situation with him. But it sounds like he's being supportive so if you tell him how you feel things should work out ok.

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You just have to trust him. There's nothing you can to do in this situation. If you don't feel like you can handle this long distance relationship then maybe you should break it off. Otherwise, you're just going to have to get use to being apart and learn how to cope. My boyfriend travels for work so I know how you feel, but I trust him. He's never given me a reason not to. So you have to listen to your heart and your own intuition.

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So the other day, I went to the lady doctor and she told me as she was checking me out that I was very "deep". I'm not sexually active, but I wonder if when I decide to become sexually active will this make my partner feel different about me?  I've heard that men like things kind of tight down there, and well...I don’t know if I will be satisfying to some one if I am very "deep".

Answer:
Ok so i want you to relax about this. It's ok. It not about how deep you are. This is a natural thing. Because if you think about it, it will be the tip of the penis that this will affect. So no worries. It only matters how wide you are. So do those kegels ladies! Tighten up those vaginas!

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Dear Snippie, I am a good husband, I think. But I still like to flirt, and even fool around a little now & then. My wife knows how I am and isn't jealous. Do you think this is wrong, if I'm comfortable telling her about it, and she doesn't mind?

Answer:
Honestly I don't know how to answer this one. She doesn't mind so it really isn't my place to say whether or not what you do in your relationship is wrong or right. But I think you need to look at yourself. Why do you feel the need to cheat? Also, if you didn't feel it was somewhat wrong you wouldn't be asking me, right? So maybe you need to look more inside yourself and figure out what is going on in your relationship that you feel the need to be with other women. The question I will answer that you asked is if I think it's wrong. I do. Just because I feel when you are with someone you should be with that person and that person alone.

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so i read the question again. I think what he is asking is, is it wrong that she is ok with it. I don't think he was asking if it was ok if he cheats. So in that case I think he should talk to her about it and find out why she thinks it's ok. Does she feel as though she can't satisfy him? Because she might start to resent him for it later and use this against him.
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So, my boyfriend has become a rather large individual, 6'3" and about 340 lbs. This is weight he's gained over the past 3 yrs we've been together.

Now, I am a skinny girl; 5'4" at about 104 lbs. The problem is that when we have sex, I literally can't breath because he's too heavy and me on top doesn't exactly work out either. Any suggestions?

Answer:
Ok so i've come up with some positions i think will work well for you. You lay down on your back. He's on his knees in front of you. You lay your legs onto his chest/shoulder area. Another one is doggy style. Hope those help!

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I want to know if you can figure out why it is that a person may want to make love to their S.O., but can't find it in them to get the energy or the ummph to get it started. You see, It could actually go a very long time...like 2 weeks at a time without having taken place if the S.O. doesn't get it started. But once it IS started it is out of this world one after the other orgasm? Is this pure laziness, or some sort of shyness...or...?
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Answer:
Well, all lot of people are just too tired to get the sex started. I wouldn't take it personally. But if you want to have sex more often and your SO isn't taking the lead then you may have too. You have to remember that know one knows what you're thinking unless you tell them. So it sounds like you're just going to have to take the lead in this area and get it started and not depend so much on your SO in that area.

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