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Question:

Okay so my best friend and I like the same guy and he likes me better, but (not to be conceded) i already beat her at a lot of things and I don't know when it is going to be the last straw. For example, I'm better than her at cheerleading and we recently started a new sport (competitive swimming) and I am better at that again. I wish there was something she was better at so I don't feel so bad! Also I'm better with guys. It's not her fault but she's shy and I'm VERY outgoing. I say what's on my mind. I just would rather guys ask me out. I will flirt uncontrollably to get to that point though . Anyway, now we like the same guy, I've liked him longer, and I don't know what to do.
I told her Sunday (its tuesday) that I love to flirt with him but its harmless and I wouldn't want to date him, and this is because I haven't seen him in a while and forgot how amazing he is. Here's the thing: I saw him yesterday (monday) and I remembered why I liked him. He is magical and enchanting and halarious and obnoxious and crazy and gentle and caring and passionate and easy going and simple all at the same time. We are really the perfect match. We talk about liking each other and if we started dating it would be seamlesss and easy, with the exception of my best friend. I just don't know if this would be that final straw I was talking about. Sometimes she can be very touchy, and although I truely would not mind if she and this boy date (I wouldn't because I love both of them and would be happy for them), I just have this feeling she won't feel the same way. This wraps up into sex because I can totally see myself losing it to him. He is someone I want to remember for the rest of my life, so it wouldn't matter to me (obviously the sex would matter. i just mean if things didn't work out it would be okay.). Obviously he isn't getting any right off the bat, but I almost promised him that six months from now he has a shot. (I'm on meds that say I can't get prego or I'll have a deformed baby and its six months til its out of my system. Not that I'll get prego but I signed an abstinence waiver and we were talking about it so that's why I said six months. She definitly wouldn't have sex with him, and he already told me he isn't a virgin anymore. (I teased him about this for a while...love him!) Anyway, what do you think I should do about all of this?

My Age-15
her age 14 (except she'll be 15in 2 months...)
his age-15? (i know. its horrible that i don't know how old he is! in fact. he might be a little younger than me... don't care)

Ps: obviously i'm a girl!

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Question:
Age 22
Female
 
I'm on birth control and my boyfriend and I both tested clean, so we don't use condoms.  It feels amazing to be completely bare and feel his soft, warm body against mine, but whenever we have sex it burns within minutes afterward.  Regardless whether or not he comes inside, it burns sometimes on the inside but most of the time on the outside.
 
I don't have a urinary tract infection and my blood test came back negative for any STDs, so what else could it be?  My sister suggested I might be allergic to him or that it could mess with my pH balance down there.  Any ideas?  Should I see a gynecologist?

Answer:
Yes, I guess you could be allergic. It is possible. It is definitely messing with your ph balance. I suggest going to see your Gyno because I am not a doctor and cannot diagnose you. Anytime something is wrong with your vagina you should see a doctor. It's not something to just ignore. But until you see the doctor remember to pee after sex. Also, make sure you sit on the toilet for a little bit after peeing and squeeze his sperm out of you. You can do this by pushing down with your stomach muscles. Get some wet wipes and use those to clean up.

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Answer:
I dont think there is a certain age. I think it's something you have to find inside yourself. Do you feel ready? It's a lot of responsibility having sex. It's not just the act, it's everything that goes with that. Emotion, pain, hurt, love, std's, pregnancy, protection, AIDS, abortion, adoption, insecurity, fluids, smells, infections, feelings and more!!
Think about all of this and make the choice to be educated before jumping into something. Make sure you use all kinds of protections if you choose to go ahead with it. But remember. Virginity is something you'll never get back. It only takes one time.

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Question: 17/F
Hello! I was hoping you could help me out on this...

Answer:
Well sweety, If you really feel that you're ready you can go to planned parenthood. They have experience with educating young girls on safe sex. They will still help you if you can't pay them. So please find the one closest to you. They won't call your parents so don't worry about them finding out. If you want to get some protection and your mother won't help you you're going to have to take care of this yourself.

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Question:

Dear Snippie,

I have been married for about 5 years and it seems as if I don’t desire sex anymore. I used to be a sex fanatic, doing it at least twice a day but not so much any more.  I still love my mate but for some reason, I just can’t get the engine started when it comes to doing the deed. I have been blaming the spouse for trying to run the race before the engine is warm but I think it might actually be me now… coupled with that and well… smell… My spouse doesn’t stink or anything but it seems like certain smells, including people, can just get me going and well… my mate just doesn’t have it….. However, I get aroused by foreplay and dirty thoughts but when it comes to the big show…. I get turned off. Frankly, I would rather sleep than do anything sexual if given the choice.  Does this mean I have something wrong with me or that I don’t love my mate like I think I do? Does smell and pheromones play a larger role in this or am I making this sh$# up?

Sincerely,

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