which Xangan would you like to kiss? 

pretend your single if you’re not

QUESTION:
Dear Snippie,

I am a 18F and I have never been kissed! I am starting to worry that it will never happen and that, once it does, I will be so terrible from lack of many years experience. I know most people have their first kiss when they are still in middle school. Do you think it will become a problem when I finally begin to date someone?

Thanks so much for your help!

ANSWER:
I don’t think you’ll have any problems at all when you kiss for the first time. I know you probably think you won’t be good but that’s what everyone thinks before their first time. I wouldn’t stress about it. When it happens just be gentle and don’t slobber. The rest will happen naturally. If after you have your first kiss and you don’t think it went so well, write back and we can all give you some tips.

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A Spanish Teacher was explaining to her college class that in Spanish, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine.

‘House’ for instance, is feminine: ‘la casa.’

‘Pencil,’ however, is masculine:’el lapiz.’

 A student asked, ‘What gender is ‘computer’?’

Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether computer’ should be a masculine or feminine
noun. Each group was asked to give four reasons for its recommendation.

 The men’s group decided that ‘computer’ should definitely be of the Feminine gender(‘la computadora’), because:

 1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic;

 2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else;

 3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval; and

 4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it.

 (THIS GETS BETTER!)

 The women’s group, however, concluded that computers should be Masculine (‘el computador’), because:

 1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on;

 2. They have a lot of data but still can’t think for themselves;

 3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem; and

 4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model..

  The women won.

QUESTION:
24/f

I want to know how to make my man orgasm faster? Seriously he can go for an hour without climaxing. I have talked to him about it and we have tried different positions but nothing seems to be working. It’s actually causing sex to be very painful for me. And now I am dreading making love to him.

ANSWER:
Well, I’m not a guy so I had to do some research to get you some answers. Also make sure you are using a lube so that you don’t get too dry. That could be causing some of the pain.
Here are some things that I found.

Play with his perineum

If you haven’t discovered the erotic potential of his perineum yet – that’s the area between his scrotum and anus – then another treat’s in store. You can press, lick, stroke and tease this area, right up to his anus, and increase his sexual excitement enormously.

Play with his balls

Because men are so penis-centred, they and their partners tend to forget how sensitive and erotic his scrotum and testicles can be. Play with his balls as you give him fellatio, for example, and he’ll be in heaven. You could even try taking one at a time into your mouth and gently rolling it around.

Talk dirty as you make love

A lot of women are too inhibited to talk dirty during sex, but I’d say most men like it – a lot.

If you want more examples this is where I found the information.

http://www.eioba.com/a31444/thirty_one_tips_for_women_to_make_sex_great_for_men

UPDATED

Can you please explain to the readers this (about my question):

I have severe uterine and cervical problems. He knows this and wants to make me as happy and satisfied as I can be. He is a wonderful man. The painful sex is not the cause of “lack of lubrication.
We do not use any protection because I am now unable to have children.
I have tried many things to try to make him climax faster.
He has ALWAYS been a very long “climaxer”.
We are both avoiding sex for a while (yes we talked it over). Maybe a little abstinence will make him climax a litter faster?

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QUESTION:
i am in the eleventh grade. and in the sixth through eighth grade i dated a boy on and off. and i have always had feelings for him. but at the time it just didn’t work out. we now go to separate schools and on valentines day i saw him in a store and i remembered everything that happened between us. i believe that i love him but he has a girlfriend. how do you think i should deal with the situation?

ANSWER:
Sweety, all you’re doing is remembering.That doesn’t mean that you love him. He’s with someone new now. You should move on. It’s ok to have good memories of relationships with out wanting to be with that person. So get a grip and find someone new. Until this guy is available he’s off limits.

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eat one food everyday, all day, what would it be?

Ok, with out getting fat

Have sex with one celebrity, who would it be?

trait about yourself? What do you love most about yourself?

QUESTION:
Female, age 25
 
Dear Snippie:

I’ve been reading your blog for awhile now but this is the first question I’ve submitted. Here’s the issue- my husband has a hard time giving me oral. Communication isn’t really our problem here, because we’ve talked about it and he knows how much I would like him to at least attempt it. His reply is that he just isn’t comfortable with it yet and he will have to come to it “in his own time”, which I respect and am ok with. I know my husband very much loves me and wants me to be happy, and it has only minimally affected our otherwise healthy and thriving sex life (the only difference being that I don’t give him quite as much oral as I used to, not out of spite but because if I’m not in the right frame of mind about it it’s really easy for me to get resentful and I don’t believe lingering resentment is good for a healthy relationship). So my question is what can I do to make this easier for him? Please understand I’m not looking for tips on how to manipulate him into it or anything like that; I just want to know what I can do to remove any potential roadblocks and make it a more inviting prospect. I am particularly hoping your male readers can clue me in with a man’s perspective on the issue (though I am equally ready for female input as well). I always respect your opinions about these types of situations and I await any practical advice you may have!!
 
Thanks

ANSWER:
Some people just don’t like oral. Getting it or giving it. It’s not for everyone. So maybe just let him know it’s not a big deal. Sometimes when your not thinking about it and you get wrapped up in the moment things just happen. So if he feels no pressure from you about it then maybe in the future he’ll finally be able to let go of his fears and just go with the flow. But pushing the issue will only make him not like it that much more.

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