Question:What kind of positions do women like most? I have heard that girl on top allows for max female control and therefore is more pleasurable, I have also heard that most positions that involve clitoral stimulation feel very good for a woman. So what's really going on? What do women really want to feel? Or is it a matter of using your imagination?
Answer:Well what you've just mentioned is right on. But there really is no one position that women like best. Everyone's different. But clitoral stimulation in any position is a favored. Woman also like to be caressed and touched. So while you are in the act of love making make sure to use your hands. Not just on boobs and vagina. But other areas too. How about touching her face or her hair. Or maybe her back. Rubbing your hands all over her body will drive her wild. So it's not always about position. It's about what you're doing with that position. Are you making it the best possible position it can be?
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How about kissing and rubbing noises
Talk to your woman. (There's that "T" word again...) Find out what she likes and doesn't like. Some women can only get pleasure lying flat on their back. Some women go absolutely crazy in the doggie-style position. Many women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so try oral sex until she hits and then immediately go for vaginal sex and see how she responds. You have to talk to figure it out. Don't try fumbling in the dark for the switch. You'll never find it.
It's all about experimentation and finding what works best for you. If nothing else, the education will be WORTH it.
I am so bad about doing two things at once...but I have noticed when I am coordinated enough...touching does wonders...
You've got to be adventurous. Too many people stick to just one thing they know works for them. Move around, change positions, let your imagination run with the passion. There is absolutely no reason for sex to ever be boring.
I must be weird because I don't like to be touched all the time. A little touching is okay, but too much is just weird.
@simply_steffy - you dont like to be touched during sex???
@SnippiesBlog - I don't like to be touched period. It makes me uncomfortable. The only person I was ever "comfy" with caressing me was my ex.
@simply_steffy - so how do you have sex then? hands off? I understand this cause im not a very touchy feely person either but during sex I love it
@SnippiesBlog - I guess you could say that.
Any position + a clitorial vibrator (bullet)= intense sweet love making. I agree. Its what you do with a position. Even the basic missionary position can be made more enjoyable with a lift of her pelvis, add a c-ring for pleasure for both and i can recomend some really good ones (be sure to use a really good lubricant. I recommend a creamy one-Pure Romances' Whipped in Strawberry Cheesecake). Most of our trigger points have nothing to do with the most obvious, grabbing the hips or at the waist can be such a turn on. Whispering in our ear. Tapping into our heart and soul can make the moments more memoriable and pleasureable.
Communicate, Experiment and Play!! Cos I can tell you from experience that, in doing so, I have discovered things that turn me on that I never would've even considered!! Enjoy! Have fun!
I agree completely with Snippie on this one!!! Every woman is different; like SladeTheGreyFox says, you gotta talk to her and find out what she likes.
@imagoodegg31 - awesome response!
Obviously, pregnancy limits the kinds of positions that are comfortable or even feasible. So the following info is pre-pregnancy sex.
The wife would agree that touching, body rub, caressing, some neck nibbling... they all do wonders to enhance the experience. But she says that the position really depends on the mood and circumstance. I mean, if she's in the kitchen and I grab her hips from behind and hike up her skirt, there's added pleasure in the spontaneity. If it's early morning, and I'm waking her with a few kisses, spooning can really hit the spot. And then there are those moments when she tells me to just lay back while she controls the action from on top. So I think it really depends on the couple and their ability to communicate what makes it hot.
@MyxlDove - I totally agree with that.
Communication is key in all things with relationships and sex. There are a lot of things that can improve the sex with positions, but it is very much a "in the moment" deal. Different positions and attention to all part of the body are very very important.
In order for me to stimulate the clitoris I have to know where it is. Where is the clitoris?
@vanedave - on her forehead. rub it good!
@SnippiesBlog - Dag nabbit! I was lied to! I was told it was in her foot.
@MyxlDove - lol you were told wrong!
Actually, I can only handle being spoken to when I'm drunk, and then it has to be dirty. Any other time, though, it's kind of embarrassing.
Touching, however, is GREAT! Pretty much any kind, but especially the type that says "I absolutely worship at the temple that is your body!" *GLEE!*
i think it depends on the mood.
if i'm love making then yes, i want to be caressed and touched smoothly all over.
standard missionary.
if we're fucking, i wanna be allover the place in different positions, even if they aren't that enjoyable for myself.
i get off on his pleasure.
Boy do I agree with you. I love a man touching me (i mean all over my body and just not in one spot). It's the best feeling.
Personally, I hate being on top. It tires me out and then I can't focus on enjoying it.
yup what SladeTheGreyFox & imagoodegg31 said..
u gotta talk to her and she tells u what she likes.. lol plus a couple toys once in a while are ok too.. 
it gets pretty boring if u just do the same stuff over and over lol
i get really turned on by turning him on ...
like, half the reason i love giving blowjobs is that it turns me on, too.
a lot.