May 3, 2009
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Why does sex hurt?
18/FMy boyfriend and I have been having sex for over eight months now and we’ve never had problems up until a month or so ago. When we do it, he can’t get it in at first – like I’m not lubricated enough – but I definitely am. And then when he finally gets it in, it hurts like hell. The pain makes me want to vomit, and it’s so uncomfortable. Or, if it does work, he always cums before I can orgasm. I’m starting to become dissatisfied with our sex life and I can’t do anything about it.What do think?Send your SEX questions to:
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Comments (31)
go see your gynecologist about this tbh.if it was fine and just started up with the pain there’s probably something going on you need to see a doctor about.
That’s not normal..
You definitely should go get checked up!
Yes, go see your doctor! Why waste time asking someone online? It should be obvious! Talk to your doctor.
When
a woman feels pain while having sexual intercourse, it is called
dyspareunia. Painful sex is fairly common. Nearly 2 out of 3 women have
it at some time during their lives. The pain can range from very mild
to severe. This pamphlet will explain:
<li>Changes in your body during sex
<li>Where pain can occur during sex
<li>What causes dyspareunia
Sited: http://www.acog.org/publications/patient_education/bp020.cfm Click link to see the full publication and more information. And please see your OB/GYN
Gyn time.
I think you need to go to the Gyno.
I have heard of that before. But I have no experience with it. Time for the old gynecologist
Agreed, gyno it up. Have you both been tested?
Shit, it definitely shouldn’t hurt. Go to the doctor!
Very sorry to read this. Hope this is something you and your doctor find easy to resolve.
It might be this http://serenadante.xanga.com/695149330/vaginismus/ said by the wonderful SerenaDante
but really, they need to go see a gyno
marvels of modern medicine… a $20.00 copay just may resolve this with little pain and time. Sex shouldn’t involve pain unless you’re into that…
It sounds something like endometriosis. Or what Fugita said. You should definitely go see your gynocologist.
Go see the gyno for sure. It could be vaginismus, but you can’t be sure. And its always better to get a professional medical opinion just to be on the safe side.
your gyno can tell you why it’s hurting so much and potentially help, but as for him orgasming before you, that’s perfectly normal. women almost always require more stimulation than men and require direct stimulation of the clitoris to orgasm. only about 30% of women can orgasm from penetration alone.
You need surgery. You might need to get a snip-snip in your lady parts. Otherwise, it is going to hurt. It’s not a big deal unless it is something serious.
Better safe than sorry, get a check up
Time to see the gyno about that. :
hmm. Might want to see a doctor aboot that
sex hurtz cuz itza sin to hav fun
“I’m tired of sex,” a woman once said, “it’s nothing but a pain in the ass.”
“You’re doing it wrong,” her friend replied instantly.
@darkoozeripple - lmao
duh, go to the gyno
@Olyachka - What makes you think that? She said they’d been having sex for months before it started hurting…
I’d hate to sound like a broken record here, but…
Gynecologist time.
endometriosis
buy a dildo
yeah it sounds like you may have something going on internally that could cause problems. Both of you probably should go get tested just to be sure and go to the gyno. Better to be safe than sorry.
Trust me you’re fine! i had the same problem. at first i thought he was too big and in reality it was the emotional connection. now before we make love we turn each other on for a long period of time so i get enough lubrication down there. you have to be wanting it i mean just wanting it. don’t do it just because you think you have to or he wants to. you both have to want to do it and really get into it. making it spicy always works!
Glad she took the time to consult an advice blog before seeking medical attention. At least go to WebMD first.
Aaren;t you mared