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QUESTION:
25, Female
So I have a rather personal question. In hindsight I guess all these questions are rather personal. But anyways. My question. I’ve never been aroused by toys before, and its been rather difficult to have sex in the past. More specifically its rather painful to the point that I’m in tears. So I guess my question is what is wrong with me? I’ve gone to the doc, and there is nothing wrong, at least not physically. I’ve read some research that says it could be a mental thing, but that is just in regards to sex. The research didn’t include vibrators or anything of that nature.

ANSWER:
My guess is you’re not using enough lube. You must be very dry.You are probably just not getting wet enough while having sex which usually can cause friction and hurt really bad. There are special creams that women can get for this. Some over the counter and some are prescription. This will prevent rubbing and friction. This is a normal thing for some women. Next time you go to your doctor. Mention dryness during sex, get a prescription for a cream or get some lube and see if that works. If you are still having issues let me know.

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QUESTION:
21 years old. Virgin.
I have a friend thats frustrated… so frustrated its making her cry and very upset. For awhile now, during her time of the month, she has been trying to insert a tampon but something is NOT allowing her to do so. She can’t figure it out and she is getting sick and tired of using the pads. I’m not quite sure what to tell her other than ask a doctor, but she is shy and is scared. She’s never had a pap.I was hoping I could get a little insight from you, to possibly help her out.

ANSWER:
She needs to see a doctor. She cant be shy about stuff like that. The doctor could tell her what’s going on. Never ignore any bad signs with your vagina. Even if you think its small or nothing. You want the clarification from a doctor that its nothing. She should also try a different angel. Lying down. Foot propped up onto the toilet. Also putting some Vaseline over the cardboard area of the tampon to insert might help some too.

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Dear Snippie #35 (Is watching porn cheating?)

Question:
Dear Snippie,
I found out that my husband looks at porn when I’m not around.  This really makes me feel insecure because I can never compete with the girls he’s looking at.  Is this considered cheating?  How should I handle it without embarrassing him or me?”

Answer:
I understand how you feel. I once had a boyfriend do this to me too. I don’t mind porn but I do mind when you hide it and pretend you weren’t looking at it when you were. I think as long as the guy is honest about looking at it it’s fine. There’s no reason to be insecure about your man watching porn. He’s with you and loves you. I don’t believe this is cheating at all. I think talking to him about it in a nice way and just letting him know how you feel is the way to go. Let him know that you feel insecure. Maybe he can help you feel better by reassuring you . But communication is the key.

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