April 28, 2009
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Dear Snippie ( Why do my legs shake? )
QUESTION:
19/F
When my man stimulates my clitoris, my legs do this weird jerking thing that I really can’t control. It’s not only during orgasm – it’s constant every time he flicks it a certain way. It’s honestly pretty annoying because there’s no way to stabilize my legs. Is this normal?
ANSWER:
Yes this is very normal. In fact mine do the same thing. Try not to be worried about what your body does when you are masturbating or having sex. It will do some strange things. You can always try holding your legs but then you’ll just be worried about keeping your legs still the whole time. This will distract you from what should be happening. Which is your orgasm. So try not to be insecure about any of it. Just go with the flow and enjoy it.UPDATE:
After thinking about this some more. The guy should not be “flicking” anything. Maybe he need to be more gentle and caressing. Shaking is normal but jerking might mean he’s overstimulating or making you uncomfortable.Send your SEX questions to:
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, Snippie
Comments (32)
I’ve had the same problem in the past. The best thing I can say to do is just relax and try to breath. And like Snippie said, just don’t focus on it
i think this is sort of like the adrenalin rush thing going on in your body. the back of my thighs spasm some times when i’m in the act with girls.
Have your man put an arm lock on your legs while he’s going to town. *shrugs*
if you’re legs are shaking, that means it’s good!
I’ve had girls shake.. which means I must have been doing a good job.
The same thing happens to me! It is very annoying, but my husband has started ‘going’ with the rhythem of my legs… makes it interesting!!!
Same happens to me…nothing out of the ordinary! It is rather annoying though… just relax and make sure you are breathing as normally as possible, I’ve found that helps!
There’s such a thing as OVERstimulation? *scratches head*
Explain… oh great Sexpert Snippie.
@Axis_of_Doom - if he’s flicking her clit it could be too much. there are ways of making her orgasm without being too rough. does that make sense?
my whole body shakes,
so stop complaining.
@DearSnippie - So *over*stimulation is when he’s basically being too rough and it feels painful?
@Axis_of_Doom - i wasnt quite sure how to explain it. I was talking to a friend of mine and when we discussed it she said she read the question differently. That maybe he was hurting her in some way by being too rough. I know that if someone is too rough on my clit that my leg will jerk. which is what she was asking in the question. So i thought maybe i read the question wrong the first time.
@DearSnippie - I getcha. I’m about to share some personal shit…
I’ve had times where I’ve received oral (
) from a friend of mine a few times, and whenever my penis stopped being hard for whatever reason, the oral stimulation actually started to hurt a little. It was weird.
Mkay. Now you and anyone who reads this comment knows. I had oral. And it was awesome.
@Axis_of_Doom - haha i wont tell “shhhhhhhhh”
@DearSnippie - Yeah… you better not! lol
time to break out the hand cuffs… i mean ankle cuffs?
yeah
no flicking…eek…painful
I shake too. Usually it’s my whole body though. lol.
it has to do with the stimulation of the nerves down there. if the nerves that stimulate your clitoris are close enough to the nerves that stimulate your muscle movement in your legs, cross stimulation can occur and you get shaking.
it just means the sex is good and don’t worry about it.
i definately have some pretty….um, violent….reactions when my husband goes to work on my clit. i never thought it wasn’t normal until i read this question, haha. i definately agree that you should try having him handle you differently down there, but in the end if it continues, just enjoy and go with it.
@Fairywife - same here…my “core” shudders and trembles pretty violently :-<
Hmm… I didn’t know that.
Hmmn, Ive had those spazms before, but its a sensitive area, so I figure your body is going to retaliate somehow with this “flicking” stuff going on.
Mine shake when the sex (stimulation) is amazing! I think I am the most aroused and have the best orgasms when my legs are shaking.
Totally normal for some women.
i agree that jerking legs are very normal, and yeah, cool! i also totally got what snippie is saying about that flicking thing and OVER stimulating… orgasms for women are ten times more awesome if they have a while to build if ya know what i mean. too much too fast is just not too satisfying.
Gah, my legs go crazy, too! It’s so obnoxious & I’m so self-conscious about it. Blegh.
@Axis_of_Doom - @DearSnippie - I made a post about why girls shake during orgasm, and why they don’t want you to touch them, and its because during orgasm all the senses are heightened to a degree which even a gentle touch could be painful. I never shook during orgasm, so I was wondering why women did. :3
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ha, that’s happened to me too. I find it kind of annoying, actually.