April 23, 2009
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Response from “My sexual urges are gone”
Wow. Heh, reading up on the advice given from you and others and quite shocked. I can see how the depression thing plays into it, but however.. getting to a therapist as some recommended is a bit hard due to financial problems in my town at the moment. I will definitely get on that if the mood does not get better. Family doctor, I could but the one I go to is one of those.. how would you put it.. Bible-thumper, no sex before marriage kind of guy. No offense to anyone at all. Each to their own.
beezu283 kind of took the words out of my mouth with the doctor part, especially with having been on anti-depressants/anti-psychotic meds most of my life to keep my moods balanced. Never know though, just might find a doctor who tells me something different. As for talking to a girl about it, good luck on that one for me. Most of them I shy around or make it complicated, but I will definitely take that into consideration.
As far as drugs and alcohol, I haven’t touched any type of drugs in 6 years. Not coming off as a jerk about it because nobody would’ve had guessed it off hand. Alcohol, I drink every once in a while. Legal to drink, but I don’t abuse it. More of the every once in a while social drinker.
In response to Xerogriffin, I could write probably one of the longest blog or even a response as to why I love her and oddly, it wouldn’t even be anything of sex. Yeah, sex was amazing with her but we didn’t have it all that often, just wasn’t what we really cared for but I understand where you’re coming from. As I said though, I could name a million, ok maybe not literally, but plenty of reasons why I love her, but I try not to think about it due to everything still feeling fresh to the mind and heart.
As Snippie said, I will keep you posted down the road if she still wishes, on the other hand.. Guess it’s better to live life than to never live at all right?
Thanks again Snippie, always with the best advice.
Comments (9)
i dont like wine. hate the taste.
he could get a big stuffed animal and talk to it. or he could call up his mom. (har har…)
yay glad my words helped/were accurate/whatnot 
@embrown88 - Wine is definitely an acquired taste. A lot of people taste it thinking it’s going to taste like grape juice and are surprised by what they do taste…which (if any) drink do you prefer? Just curious.
As to the OP: depression has so many physical effects. I know when I’m depressed sometimes I can’t even get out of bed much less. I think that’s probably what it is, and given your situation, I don’t think you’re “clinically” depressed, so it should pass in due time (hang in there, kid).
I like Water, Rootbeer, Milk and Oj
I understand.
@embrown88 - Well…I meant alcoholic drink but fair enough. I get the impression you’re a teetotaler (which is fine, might I add…there’s no real need to drink if you don’t like it).
@abilene_piper_lg - I dont like alcoholic drinks. Beacause I am 20 years old not ready for them in which case I stay smart beacause I am a fit female.
@embrown88 - All I have to say is follow your own instincts about it. Don’t feel pressured. I’m a fairly physically fit individual who enjoys alcohol in moderation (but I don’t force alcohol on anyone else, just as you wouldn’t ever force total abstinence form alcohol on anyone), and of course, as you mentioned, I definitely don’t advocate underage drinking.
Ok. thankx. Never did like the taste of wine, beer or other drinks like liq.
Im so glad you posted this. I, unfortantely, didnt have any advice because yours was great and I could think of nothing else. It is so nice to hear that someone is more at ease with the situation, even if it isnt totally rectified.