QUESTION:
19/F
When my man stimulates my clitoris, my legs do this weird jerking thing that I really can’t control. It’s not only during orgasm – it’s constant every time he flicks it a certain way. It’s honestly pretty annoying because there’s no way to stabilize my legs. Is this normal?

ANSWER:
Yes this is very normal. In fact mine do the same thing. Try not to be worried about what your body does when you are masturbating or having sex. It will do some strange things. You can always try holding your legs but then you’ll just be worried about keeping your legs still the whole time. This will distract you from what should be happening. Which is your orgasm. So try not to be insecure about any of it. Just go with the flow and enjoy it.

UPDATE:
After thinking about this some more. The guy should not be “flicking” anything. Maybe he need to be more gentle and caressing. Shaking is normal but jerking might mean he’s overstimulating or making you uncomfortable.

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QUESTION:
21/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time and we decided to finally have sex. We have always been incredibly sexual with one another, he never fails to get me off and vice versa…but when we have had actual intercourse, he can’t orgasm. Do you have any advice for me that may help him? anything special I can do to make it easier?

ANSWER:
I wish I knew how long you two have been having sex or how many times because to me it sounds like you just started. Which makes me feel that he was probably just nervous. Sometimes when men have other things on their mind, are just nervous or stressed they have trouble finishing. Try helping him relax and show him there’s no pressure. I don’t feel as though it’s anything wrong with him physically.

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QUESTION:
21/F:
I am attracted to one of my coworkers. This guy likes to tease me and make fun of me all the time, so I’ve
been enjoying the attention. We talk quite often outside of work and have hung out several times too. Totally innocent though. I have a boyfriend who I’ve dated for over 2 years now, who I really care about.. but I can’t help but have these thoughts about flirting with and dating my coworker, even though I’ve never actually dated him. What should i do? Is attraction normal in every relationship? My relationship with my boyfriend is everything I could ask for. He treats me so good, so this is really making me feel guilty but these feelings have not gone away for a whole year now. What should i do?
Thanks!

ANSWER:
Being attracted to someone is normal. It’s when you act on those feelings that you have crossed the line. So just know that you are allowed to feel what you feel but if you are going to act on those feelings then you shouldnt be with your boyfriend. Everyone has self control. It whether or not you choose to use your self control or not. It’s not difficult. So are you willing to throw away your relationship with your boyfriend for a feeling you have? Think about what’s more important to you. One more thing. Just because you are attracted to someone doesn’t mean that when you are actually with that person it will be a good thing. So now you tell me, what should you do?

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Wow. Heh, reading up on the advice given from you and others and quite shocked. I can see how the depression thing plays into it, but however.. getting to a therapist as some recommended is a bit hard due to financial problems in my town at the moment. I will definitely get on that if the mood does not get better. Family doctor, I could but the one I go to is one of those.. how would you put it.. Bible-thumper, no sex before marriage kind of guy. No offense to anyone at all. Each to their own.
beezu283 kind of took the words out of my mouth with the doctor part, especially with having been on anti-depressants/anti-

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QUESTION:
25/m
My girl cheated on me and is now pregnant by the other guy. Should I have sex with someone else to get back at her so she realizes the amount of hurt it causes?

ANSWER:
NO! You should leave her ass. Kick her to the curb. Why are you still with her?

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QUESTION:
16/F
I’m just out of a serious relationship and got badly hurt. I now want a long break from men, but don’t want to give up sex. Are fuck buddies any good? I know i’d get a few offers if i asked people, so is there any harm in having occasional no-strings sex with a friend? What would i do if they developed feelings? It seems like fun, should i just go for it?

ANSWER:
This is something you have to decide for yourself. But I can tell you that in my experience, I was able to do this with no feelings involved and it was great. You just have to know whether or not you are strong enough to not get hurt if he doesn’t call, stay the night or just basically treat you like you are not his girlfriend. Do not treat him like he’s your boyfriend. Do not call him all the time. Only call him when you want sex. Just remember, be safe. Since you are not in a monogamous you are more likely to get an STD. Get tested regularly and make sure to talk to your doctor about ways to protect yourself.

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