Month: February 2009

  • Dear Xanga (My Sex Drive Stinks)

    Question:

    Dear Snippie,

    I have been married for about 5 years and it seems as if I don’t desire sex anymore. I used to be a sex fanatic, doing it at least twice a day but not so much any more.  I still love my mate but for some reason, I just can’t get the engine started when it comes to doing the deed. I have been blaming the spouse for trying to run the race before the engine is warm but I think it might actually be me now… coupled with that and well… smell… My spouse doesn’t stink or anything but it seems like certain smells, including people, can just get me going and well… my mate just doesn’t have it….. However, I get aroused by foreplay and dirty thoughts but when it comes to the big show…. I get turned off. Frankly, I would rather sleep than do anything sexual if given the choice.  Does this mean I have something wrong with me or that I don’t love my mate like I think I do? Does smell and pheromones play a larger role in this or am I making this sh$# up?

    Sincerely,

    Sex Drive Button Missing

     XANGA, THIS ONES FOR YOU!!!!

    What do you think this person should do?

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    , Snippie

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  • Dear Snippie (This threesome is complicated)

    Question:

    Dear Snippie,
    I  have been married for a while now.  Not that long ago, a friend was over for the day.  To leave out all of the fun details (sorry!), she ended up showering with my husband and I.  There was some sexual play, but no sex that night.  My husband and I have discussed it.  We are both ok with what happened and wouldnt be opposed to it happening again.  I am not comfortable with him penetrating her at all.  So we know what our limits are.
    The problem is that we are going on vacation soon.  She is coming on vacation also and sharing our hotel room.  While I wouldnt mind some sexual activity with her involved, how do I exclude her from other things?  I dont think I would be ok with an audience while my husband and I have sex. 
     
    Thanks for all of your help!

    Answer:
    Wow, how open of you to allow someone into your relationship. I think in order for you to have this vacation go the way you want it to you need to talk to her before you go. Explain to her that you want to be able to have some alone time with your husband and for her not to take it personally. If you have activities already planned you can let her know which ones you want her to attend and which ones you don’t. But I definitely think you need to talk with her before you go and lay down the ground rules so it’s not so awkward once you get there.

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    ,     Snippie

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  • Dear Snippie ( I can’t orgasm)

    Question:
    I’m afraid I’m incapable of having an orgasm. I’m only 18 and I’ve heard from some people that most woman don’t obtain an orgasm until they are in their 20′s. However, when I touch my clit I feel absolutely nothing. And I know that its supposed to be super sensitive, but its the same thing as if I was touching my fingers. Nothing special. It usually takes a lot for a guy to please me, but I’ve never even gotten close to an orgasm and I don’t want this to affect my sex life later on in life.

    Thanks!
    And keep up the good work.

    Answer:
    I was the same way. I didn’t have my first orgasm until my late 20s. You know how I had it? With a sex toy. A vibrating “bullet”. So don’t think that there is anything wrong with you. Lots of women have these issues. Some woman can only have an orgasm from the g-spot and others are just clitoral. So you have to figure out what is best for you and what works. It might take time. But my suggestion is to go out and buy a bullet and practice. Use it on your clitoris. If this thing can’t get you off than you are definitely a g-spot girl. So if all else fails go to your doctor. They might be able to give you a cream that can help. So don’t give up. If you have any other questions let me know.

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    Don’t forget to keep the sex questions coming. Send them to snippiesblog@gmail.com and find out what everyone thinks without them knowing its you!

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    Age ___    M/F ___

    Also try and include as many details as you can.

    Please rec this post. It helps me get more questions.

    I can’t do these post without questions.

    , Snippie

  • Dear Snippie (24 year old virgin)

    Question:
    Dear Snippie,
    I have been with my current boyfriend for about 10 months.  He is my first serious boyfriend and I am hoping we will eventually get married.  However, I am 24 and a virgin.  We’ve talked about the physical side of our relationship and I told him at the time that I was just not ready to have sex.  I recently told him that I might be ready to try and we experimented with it a little bit, but when we did I was afraid again and had to tell him to stop.   I want to please him and I KNOW the frustration men have when they can’t be satisfied sexually and I feel terrible.  He has not placed any guilt on me for this and he has been very understanding but I can’t help but feel bad about it.   Am I just being prudish and a coward?  Should I just let this stupid fear go and give it a try or should I just wait until I’m truly ready?  I don’t know how long it might be before I am. 


    Answer:
    You are not prudish or a coward. This is your decision to make. Don’t let anyone make this decision for you. You’ll know when it’s right for you. There won’t be any question in your mind. So just be patient and if your boyfriend can’t be patient with you then maybe you should rethink your situation with him. But it sounds like he’s being supportive so if you tell him how you feel things should work out ok.

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    Your turn to answer Xangans!
    Don’t forget to keep the sex questions coming.
    Send them to snippiesblog@gmail.com and find out what everyone thinks without them knowing its you!
    Please rec this post. It helps me get more questions. I can’t do these post without questions.

    ,     Snippie