January 29, 2009
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Dear Snippie #39 (I have a deep Vagina!)
Question:
So the other day, I went to the lady doctor and she told me as she was checking me out that I was very “deep”. I’m not sexually active, but I wonder if when I decide to become sexually active will this make my partner feel different about me? I’ve heard that men like things kind of tight down there, and well…I don’t know if I will be satisfying to some one if I am very “deep”.
Answer:
Ok so i want you to relax about this. It’s ok. It not about how deep you are. This is a natural thing. Because if you think about it, it will be the tip of the penis that this will affect. So no worries. It only matters how wide you are. So do those kegels ladies! Tighten up those vaginas!——————-
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Comments (34)
I kinda like to bang the rails as it were.
I’ve heard of tight and loose, but DEEP?? Are we going splunking or something?
I wonder if she meant deep as in good for child-bearing?
…Also, most vaginas can stretch to be about 8-9 inches deep, so it’s not something to worry about… Not to mention that depth has little to do with how tight a vagina is, since tightness is more indicatory of how wide the vaginal walls can be spread…
kegels, ftw.
me and my roomies talk about kegels all the time, and how you can do them at any time anywhere… we’ll have people over or something and just be like “im doing them right now.” we creack up and everyone is so lost.
@makethemakersmile - LOL! you really can do them anywhere. no one even knows.
kegels? I’m totally in the dark.
I wouldnt worry about it. In fact it can be a good thing! If a person is not as deep and with someone has a longer penis, it can be painful. The penis hitting the cervix can completely ruin sex! So I doubt that your future partner will be upset about this!
@der_lila_Stern - i was just thinking i should ad that! how funny. Thanks cause now i dont have to
@sambepambe - i know, thats why they’re amazing
yup. i’m not very deep, and sometimes it’s painful. so deep and tight sounds like a winning combination!
@mlehaymes - contracting the muscles you use to stop the flow of pee… makes sex better to have it toned. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise
Depth can be a good thing. Especially if your man is “extended”.
Constant banging against the cervix is NOT pleasant for either party.
This is good advice.
yeah width is definitely more important. The most important thing is to be confident with your vagina. Confidence is always sexy.
@SladeTheGreyFox - LMAO—-going spelunking. Oh that just made my day!!!
@vanedave - a confident vagina? thats a new one
So if a guy kegels, that probably wouldn’t be a good idea right?
Her dr. says, “You’re very deep. You’re very deep.”
She says, “You didn’t have to say it twice!”
Dr says, “I didn’t. I didn’t. I didn’t”
@AliasUndercover - hahahahahah
@KyJotheIII - I heard somewhere that guys should do “kegals” but the guy version. Something about trying to hold something up with…it. Like start small with a kleenex and work your way up to heavier things like a bandana. Strong pen0rs ftw!
Well now thats one interesting question @_@
wow.
@vanedave - Confidence is key!
lol, yeah everyones pretty much said it all here… can’t imagin deep being a bad thing
@KyJotheIII - @StewieIsMyHero - lol Kleenex and bandanas? Well there is a type of kegals for guys, and it’s definatelyl a good thing. It can help you control your timing better, and hell… more muscle down there makes it a lot thicker too~ (and yeah, you can do them anywhere also… but becareful guys, doing the exercises will often lead to erections x.x; )
Not sure what to make of that, lol. I do know, however, that I have seen a lot of women walk away with complexes when their OB/GYN has said something like that, lol! Mine told me I had a tilted cervix, but that is not an uncommon thing for women, but now IF she had made the deep comment to me like she did to that person you mentioned, I would have had to ask “what exactly do you mean by that?” I mean for one, it’s not like you are not already in the most humiliating position, naked, when they are doing the exam and then to say that…Hmmm! If I know women like I do, that girl will probably end up asking every man she comes to down the road if they think she is “deep!” Sometimes physicians should simply keep their thoughts to themselves, I think, lol!
Its not bad to be deep. I wish i was deep. My partner happens to very long and it makes it painful since im (i guess you’d call it) shallow. Be glad youre deep. Dont worry about that. make sure its tight. Those pc muscles are real important for keeping you tight and maintaining bladder control.
Kegels. They’re good for women and men!
@AliasUndercover - hahahhah!
I’m not feeling the fact or thought of putting my whowhodilly into a cha-cha that feels like a bear cave… nah…
D
A vagina is just a vagina from my point of veiw. Be proud of it
That’s certainly an interesting question. ^_^
@makethemakersmile - I just read the link you posted. That’s the first time I hear of Kegel exercises. LOL
@ichigo705 - well, you learn something new every day… at least, if you’re paying attention.
Well, the head of a guy’s penis is the most sensitive, so hopefully the deep part of you is still pretty tight.
And I was wondering the same thing as SladeTheGreyFox with the whole child-bearing thing.