Question:
Dear, Snippie

Answer:
You just have to trust him. There’s nothing you can to do in this situation. If you don’t feel like you can handle this long distance relationship then maybe you should break it off. Otherwise, you’re just going to have to get use to being apart and learn how to cope. My boyfriend travels for work so I know how you feel, but I trust him. He’s never given me a reason not to. So you have to listen to your heart and your own intuition.

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Question:
So the other day, I went to the lady doctor and she told me as she was checking me out that I was very “deep”. I’m not sexually active, but I wonder if when I decide to become sexually active will this make my partner feel different about me?  I’ve heard that men like things kind of tight down there, and well…I don’t know if I will be satisfying to some one if I am very “deep”.

Answer:
Ok so i want you to relax about this. It’s ok. It not about how deep you are. This is a natural thing. Because if you think about it, it will be the tip of the penis that this will affect. So no worries. It only matters how wide you are. So do those kegels ladies! Tighten up those vaginas!

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, Snippie

Question:
Dear Snippie, I am a good husband, I think. But I still like to flirt, and even fool around a little now & then. My wife knows how I am and isn’t jealous. Do you think this is wrong, if I’m comfortable telling her about it, and she doesn’t mind?

Answer:
Honestly I don’t know how to answer this one. She doesn’t mind so it really isn’t my place to say whether or not what you do in your relationship is wrong or right. But I think you need to look at yourself. Why do you feel the need to cheat? Also, if you didn’t feel it was somewhat wrong you wouldn’t be asking me, right? So maybe you need to look more inside yourself and figure out what is going on in your relationship that you feel the need to be with other women. The question I will answer that you asked is if I think it’s wrong. I do. Just because I feel when you are with someone you should be with that person and that person alone.

UPDATED

so i read the question again. I think what he is asking is, is it wrong that she is ok with it. I don’t think he was asking if it was ok if he cheats. So in that case I think he should talk to her about it and find out why she thinks it’s ok. Does she feel as though she can’t satisfy him? Because she might start to resent him for it later and use this against him.
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, Snippie

Question:
So, my boyfriend has become a rather large individual, 6’3″ and about 340 lbs. This is weight he’s gained over the past 3 yrs we’ve been together.

Now, I am a skinny girl; 5’4″ at about 104 lbs. The problem is that when we have sex, I literally can’t breath because he’s too heavy and me on top doesn’t exactly work out either. Any suggestions?

Answer:
Ok so i’ve come up with some positions i think will work well for you. You lay down on your back. He’s on his knees in front of you. You lay your legs onto his chest/shoulder area. Another one is doggy style. Hope those help!

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Snippie

Question:
I want to know if you can figure out why it is that a person may want to make love to their S.O., but can’t find it in them to get the energy or the ummph to get it started. You see, It could actually go a very long time…like 2 weeks at a time without having taken place if the S.O. doesn’t get it started. But once it IS started it is out of this world one after the other orgasm? Is this pure laziness, or some sort of shyness…or…?
Thanks.

Answer:
Well, all lot of people are just too tired to get the sex started. I wouldn’t take it personally. But if you want to have sex more often and your SO isn’t taking the lead then you may have too. You have to remember that know one knows what you’re thinking unless you tell them. So it sounds like you’re just going to have to take the lead in this area and get it started and not depend so much on your SO in that area.

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Snippie

Question:
Dear Snippie,
I found out that my husband looks at porn when I’m not around.  This really makes me feel insecure because I can never compete with the girls he’s looking at.  Is this considered cheating?  How should I handle it without embarrassing him or me?”

Answer:
I understand how you feel. I once had a boyfriend do this to me too. I don’t mind porn but I do mind when you hide it and pretend you weren’t looking at it when you were. I think as long as the guy is honest about looking at it it’s fine. There’s no reason to be insecure about your man watching porn. He’s with you and loves you. I don’t believe this is cheating at all. I think talking to him about it in a nice way and just letting him know how you feel is the way to go. Let him know that you feel insecure. Maybe he can help you feel better by reassuring you . But communication is the key.

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Your turn to answer Xangans!
Don’t forget to keep the sex questions coming.
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XOXO,
Snippie

I know I haven’t been around and I’m sorry. I just needed a break. It was consuming way to much of my life. Thank you to everyone who has kept in touch and made sure I was ok. You guys are awesome!

So if you want me to come back I’m going to need Sex Questions. So please send them to snippiesblog@gmail.com

I will be making my comeback with a Dear Snippie blog so make the questions good!

For those of you that don’t know what Dear Snippie is, it’s a sex education blog. People send me their questions and I answer them on here and then people can comment with their opinions.

Don’t worry, I won’t say who you are or mention your blog in any way.

So I’m back bitches!!!!!!

, Snippie

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More like your email works? Archiving the posts you’ve read or commented on. Then time stamping won’t be an issue anymore. If you hide comments you’ve already read you make more room. Just have it like the messages area on xanga, instead with boxes next to the messages so we can check them off as we read them and move them into our archive folder. Just in case we need to go back and view them again. I think clearing out our inbox will help organize us. Making room for more people to sub to.