Month: December 2008

  • UNC Chapel Hill UL Flash Mob Rave – VIDEO


    On Dec. 9th, 2008 in order to break up the stresses of fall semester exam week, UNC students flash raved their Undergraduate Library. Without warning to those that were unaware, hundreds of students packed the library lobby and brought it hardcore for over 8 minutes.

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  • Dear Snippie #30 (Im ADDICTED to masturbation)

    Question:
    Im ADDICTED to masturbation.
    i mean atleast twice a day 3 times a week
    and ive been trying to stop
    because i feel its bad
    but then again i dont…….
    i dont know What to do!
    no one knows about it and
    i have a pretty good sex life with my boyfriend
    but he cant give me the same feeling

    Answer:
    What’s the problem? LOL

    Nice to know that most everyone agrees with me that this is not a problem…. and most of us are jealous
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  • Dear Snippie’s Guest Blogger (how do you get over someone?)

    The guest blogger for today is
    AilinCorazon
    Name: Ailin
    Gender: Male
    Member Since: 7/6/2008
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    If you would like to be a guest blogger please send me a
    message and I’ll put you on the sign up list. Fist come first serve.

    Question:
    Is it possible for a 23 year old guy to approach a younger ex-girlfriend of his with whom he hasn’t spoken in at least three years (if not four) and bring closure to the highly unorthodox way they broke up?
    If so, how would you suggest I go about it?

    P.S. I am thinking of this because of a recent bar meeting I had with some very close male buddies of mine. Out of the blue, one of them said something along the lines of “on the whole, men drink more then women because men cannot forget a women whom they once felt deeply for, no matter how much she now hates him.”

    Answer:
    This hits home more than you realize.       

    I’ll break this apart as best as I can. 

    You still have feelings for someone that you haven’t talked to in years.  Know why?   You haven’t said everything you felt you needed to say.  Know why women end up letting go quicker than us?  We’re brought up to bottle it all up.  They aren’t.  They’re the “emotional” ones. 

    Thankfully I wasn’t raised this way.  Being raised by a single mother has its perks. 

    You are not over her.  You won’t be until you allow the purging of all your emotions.  Catharsis is your friend. 

    I’ve been in too many relationships.  I’m 21.   

    I have a relationship with some loose strings running around.  I sure as hell plan to take care of it as soon as the right time comes.  I wouldn’t be honest to myself or my future significant other if I don’t take care of it. 

    It’s that important to me. 

    So the first step to get over this “one” is to purge.  Understand?  Do everything it takes.  It’ll help. 

    As for “But, the point is, I did make that sacrifice for her. She was not just another girlfriend. She was, well, unforgettable (to me).” 

    She raised the bar significantly.  You have to find someone that outdoes her in every facet of the game.  Completely.   

    This is Step 2.  Hopefully your fiancée is up to task. 

    Here’s what I need you to take away from this though. 

    Nostalgia is not a bad thing man.  It’s comforting.  I am MAN enough to admit that.  I’m also man enough to realize every single one of them has changed my outlook on life, they live inside me, they all taught me a valuable lesson. But I’m also man enough to admit it’s best to not live in the past no matter how warm and comforting it is.   You need to purge yourself as soon as possible.  It does the body and soul well.   

    I’ve cried, hollered, cursed the world while I purge.  It hurts man.  But the burden off your back is amazing. 

    I wish you the best.

    AilinCorazon


    UPDATED – Xangan who sent in question has responded

    I disagree with Ailin’s reply and most of your guys’ replies. But I still rec’ed this post because I appreciate his honesty and because I appreciate what Snippie is doing.

    I am the twenty three year old in question. My fiancee is fantastic, that’s why she’s my fiancee. But no two people are ever alike, therefore no two people can ever top one another.

    After nine years and just as many girlfriends in the world of committed relationships, I can tell you that emotional purging just doesn’t work after you get past the point of no return. That point has only been reached twice in my life. Once with my fiancee, and the other with the ex.

    Actually, I went against Snippie’s direct advice and contacted the ex.

    She is doing well, not happy nor unhappy to hear from me. She has moved on but in a surprising way. She is fast becoming everything I pushed her into becoming.
    That’s why we broke up, I held her to exceptionally high standards and she just couldn’t take it at that time.

    Today she is interviewing for med school, just like I always told her she ought to.

    But I digress. Both her and I have moved on to the point where there is an irreconcilable chasm between us. But, that doesn’t mean we cannot be adults and maybe friends on day. I am just happy to see her finally reach her full potential.

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  • Dear Snippie #29 (I can’t orgasm)

    Question:
    I’m a girl, and I’ve never orgasmed through sex or masturbation. I’ve had sex a few times, have used a few ‘toys’ by myself, but still nothing.
    Is this normal? Is there something i should try? Is there something I’m doing wrong?

    Answer:
    How old are you? Nothing is wrong with you. Please don’t think that. I didn’t have my first orgasm until i was in my late 20′s. The way it happened for me was from this guy

    It was so intense. The most amazing feeling I had every felt in my whole life! So try this little guy and let me know how it goes.
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  • Dear Snippie #28 (Porn is better than sex)

    Question:
    Now, currently, I have been wondering this a lot. I’m trying to do a straight edge lifestyle which includes no promiscuous sex. Unfortunately, I just happened to have a sex drive somewhere between moderate and high. My problem is that between the moments of no sex and trying to get a true girlfriend (I don’t take relationships lightly.) I went and indulged to pornography.

    Now, I have always wondered on the idea of enjoying porn so regularly and longer than you really should, that once a woman moves into your life, things complicate, because you are so used to masturbating, that sex with your woman doesn’t really seem too appealing. Is there anything you can tell me about that? (The twist to my current relationship is that she’s long distance, but you can ignore that.)

    A second question: this girlfriend just happens to also be sexually innocent, thus not too adventurous. How do I sort of help her through that? Or is there anything left to do about that?

    Answer:
    So im not sure i understand this question but i’m gonna still try and answer. You’re not sleeping with your long distance GF so you are masturbating to porn. You think you’ve done this for so long that you won’t like having sex with your GF? Well the fact that she’s not that experienced should be an awsome thing for you because then you get to teach her all sorts of fun things. Just be gentle and easy. Don’t be pushy. Talk about it before hand. Tell her you want to try some new thing and tell her what they are. It might take awhile to get her use to it but she’ll come around eventually. Just take your time. And I think the fact that you’re teaching her new things will make sex fun for you and not seem so boring to you.

    Have fun, go slow, and maybe one day she’ll watch porn with you :)

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  • Dear Snippie #27 (Is it cheating?)

    Question:
    So something I’ve always sort of always been curious about…
    Is it against the rules to ask your lover to allow you to sleep with someone else? Just sex, no emotional ties or attachments made, at least not new ones that were not there before the encounter? Is that asking permission to cheat on them? Is it something that one should ask? Or is it something that would better be begged forgiveness for later than asked permission for? Is there a difference in who it is, ex’s or best friends as opposed to a stranger or one night stand? Is there a difference in giving and receiving? Is one better than the other? A lesser offense against your relationship?

    Answer:
    Yes it’s cheating. Unless he’s says it’s ok. But my question is why do you feel the need to be with another man?

    UPDATED

    We received a response from the person who asked the question

    ok so the point is not that the sex is enjoyed or a desire to really sleep around outside of the relationship. its the idea of having more people, experiences, practice in the mix. my fiancee has slept with three other people and has stories, experiences and i feel kinda inferior, i just want to be able to figure somethings out with other people because i don’t have to be afraid to fuck everything up with her. there are a few of my friends that i almost slept with but didn’t that i don’t think it would be a horrible idea to go at it with, lol, i mean i am completely committed to my fiancee and would not leave her for any one that i’d consider sleeping with. i sort of agree with the idea of threesome but at the same time have a bit of a fear of someone else doing something she cannot that will some how hurt our relationship in a way that just learning what i like so i can “take it home” would be good. i mean i don’t know what to ask for if i don’t know…any how thank you for responses, they are helpful!
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