Question:

I’m 30 years old, Christian, and have never been married.

What that means: I’ve never had sex.

(Trust me, it’s not that I don’t want to. )

I don’t know how most men would feel about this. Even a lot of Christian men would expect me to have done >something< by now. It’s embarrassing to be a virgin at this age, but it’s also just the way it is. Will it hurt my chances with a man in the context of a serious relationship?

Both your advice and advice from commenters (especially male commenters) would be much appreciated.

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Im leaving this one to the commenters. I’m not religious and feel like I don’t understand saving yourself for marriage enough to answer this. I’m letting the xanga members answer this post for me.
Sincerely, Snippie

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Dear Snippie,

I would like a little anal play from my wife when she’s going down on me. How do I suggest it to her without her wondering if I’m switching teams?

-Sincerely Forbidden Finger

Dear Forbidden Finger,

Well, I don’t think she’s going to think your gay just because you want her to play with your ass. But if this is your first time introducing anal i suggest talking about it first. Then you can experiment with it. She’s not going to go to that region if she’s not comfortable about it. Once you guys are familiar with that area then you can tell her what you want and it won’t be a huge shock. Communication is the key.

Don’t forget to have fun,

Snippie

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