Month: November 2008

  • Dear Snippie #8 (Is curve normal?)


    Question:

    My current boyfriend’s p*nis curves to the right but just slightly. It’s the first time I’ve seen one like that. Is it normal?

    Answer:
    Yes. A p*nis is normal no matter what direction it goes in. But just because something is different doesn’t mean it’s wrong or not normal. I would talk about it with your boyfriend and tell him it’s your first time seeing this. He might make you feel more comfortable about it. If you ask me, and you did, a curved p*nis might have its advantages.

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  • Dear Snippie #7 (First time position)

    Question:
    what is the best sexual position for a first timer?

    Answer:
    Probably missionary. You’ll probably be too nervous to try anything different anyway. Although if you aren’t nervous, for some strange reason, just go with it and do what feels good. If you’re up for trying different positions, go for it! There are no rules to sex. Anything goes as long as you’re ok with it.
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    Now what do you have to say?

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  • Dear Snippie #6 (The Devil’s Handshake)

    Question:
    During my college days I caught too many people in the act. I always thought God was punishing me for some reason by having me catch so many guys and girls doing the devil’s handshake and I have always wanted to hear how others would have handled it. How should you react if you catch someone in the act of masturbation? Or how would you react if you got caught?

    Answer:
    First of all, masturbation is not a bad thing. It helps us get in touch with our bodies and connect with ourselves. Personally, I wish I had more time for it. This question is still tricky for me because it has a religious background. I am not a religious person so I don’t have the whole “guilt” thing gnawing at me. So with that being said, Catching someone or being caught is yes embarrassing but not a bad thing.

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    Time for your comments.

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  • Dear Snippie #5 *UPDATED* (G Spot)

    Question:

    All the men I have been with haven’t been able to find my “spot.” Is it because I don’t have one (I think I do) or something else?

    Answer:
    Well do you know where your g-spot is? Cause if you don’t know how is your man suppose to know? Here’s some info I found for you.

    what exactly is the g-spot?

    It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master the woman’s G-spot effectively.

    It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The “front” wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.

    the best way to find the g-spot.

    First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don’t stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!)

    To locate and master the woman’s G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a “come hither” motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this — sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the “G-spot,” and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.

    EDIT*
    Clitoral orgasms are the greatest! Try using a bullet. Do it by yourself so you feel comfortable. It’s an amazing feeling
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  • Dear Snippie #4 (Health Benefits)

    Question:

    Are there any health benefits to sex?

    Answer:

    Yes. Plain and simple yes. There are actually many health benefits. I have looked all over online to find these answers for you. But this one site I liked the most. Its called Women to Women. It has these 7 reasons why sex is healthy for you.

    1. Sex can improve your cardiovascular health

    2. Sex can improve your sleep

    3. Sex provides the benefits of exercise

    4.  Sex is helpful in easing pain

    5. Sex can improve mood and decrease depression

    6. Sex can relieve stress

    7. Sex can enhance your sense of spirituality

    To read more on these reasons why sex is healthy you can follow this link
    http://www.womentowomen.com/sexualityandfertility/healthbenefitsofsex.aspx

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  • Dear Abby? *UPDATED*

    So i was chatting with some xanga friends last night and we started talking about sex. I ended up answering a lot of questions. One of them suggested i do a sex ed blog. But then I started thinking do i really know that much? Can I really be helpful to people? I’m not sure. But I guess I’m willing to give it a shot.

    So this is how I’m going to do this. It’s going to be a dear Abby format. But the questions should only be about sex. I don’t want any questions about if you should stay with your boyfriend or not because he’s mean to you.

    So send me your questions and I will answer them on my blog. I will not post your screen name or real name. This will all be anonymous. No one will know who you are but me. How great to get opinions from xangans with out them knowing its you.

    This is new to me so I’m not sure if I will be doing it everyday or once a week. I’m just going to feel it out and see how it goes.

    So, send me your questions through xanga message. Please don’t comment your question. I will do my best to answer them openly and honestly. And who knows what the comments will be. I think that will be the best part!
    It will be rated D.
    Thanks!
    Becca

    p.s. any suggestions are welcome! and please rec this so people know about it. PLEASE?! I never ask for rec’s so dont complain about it. And yes I tagged everyone. I need people to get this going. And if I make another post where i need people I’m gonna do it again.

  • Dear Snippie #3 (Fantasies)

    Question:

    Why are women so reluctant to open up their sexual fantasies and desires to their boyfriends?
    I understand all too well why they don’t do it casually. But one would think that they trust their boyfriend’s enough with those fantasies and desires.

    Answer:

    Well, it’s very difficult for most women to open up.  Most women have had bad sexual experiences and have a hard time overcoming them. Personally, It took me a very long time to become comfortable with my sexuality. Some woman go the complete opposite spectrum and become over sexual. So really, it just depends on the woman. The woman has to be comfortable with herself first before she can experiment with anyone else.
    So that’s why I think woman are reluctant to open up.

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  • Dear Snippie – discussion- UPDATED!

    So there were 2 Dear Snippies posted with different formats. The first one was me answering the question. The second one was you guys answering the question.

    Which format did you like better?

    Thanks for being apart of this,
    Snippie

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