November 19, 2008

  • Dear Snippie #14 (That not so fresh feeling)

    Question:
    I often feel like I smell “down there” and because of it I won’t let my boyfriend go down on me all the time when he wants to. I know there are times I feel like he smells sweaty but I do it anyway. I eat yogurt everyday and I douche once a month. Is it normal to feel like I stink? What do guys really think? I know he gets mad at me when I won’t let him. PLEASE HELP!

    Answer:
    First of all stop douching. Its not good for you. Not only does it get rid of the bad stuff but it gets rid of the good stuff too. Second of all you need to see your gyno. You shouldn’t be smelly down there. You probably have a form of Vaginitis. She can prescribe you something that can get rid of that smell.

    Also here is a website that will tell you the best way to take care of your vagina
    http://www.ubykotex.com.au/health/taking-care-of-down-there.asp
    ———–

    Your turn to answer Xanga!

    Don’t forget to keep the sex questions coming. Message them to me and find out what everyone thinks without them knowing its you!

Comments (45)

  • Yeah I was gonna suggest that she stops douching, too.  Good call snippie!  

  • @cre13 - Oddly, so was I. Hey, I’ve been married long enough to know these things. The yogurt is a good idea, though if she stops it shouldn’t be as necessary, unless she is on antibiotics.

    See, I pay attention

  • @bosefius - Good hubby *pats your head*

  • Good advice Snippie,you are the next Dr Ruth,but better.

  • @seedsower - haha thanks!

    @bosefius - good hubby!

    @cre13 - thanks!

  • @cre13 - Right, I better learn if I want to keep myself intact.

  • sometimes I find women think they smell bad when the odor is natural.  Do your boyfriends complain?  

  • @bosefius - lol.  yeah I think that’s a good idea.  I’ve only been married a year but my hubby is already trained   lol

  • @RushmoreJ - If he wants to remain a boyfriend he won’t

  • @cre13 - Almost ten years here, so I got this crap down…

  • @bosefius - wow, i would hope so!  Good for you   That’s awesome!!!

  • @SnippiesBlog - you’re welcome!

  • @SnippiesBlog - @cre13 - Thanks, now, I have to get back to my studying, she might catch me otherwise 

  • @bosefius - lol well have fun.  i gotta get to work myself… 

  • Here’s a hint about how gross douching with commercial products is: Lysol used to be sold as a douching agent to prevent pregnancy (doesn’t work, btw) before birth control was legal and therefore able to be advertised. 

  • @abbylyne - omg those are too funny! I cant believe they’re real!

  • Yes, I’ve heard girls who complain they think they stink but the SO’s say they smell fine or even “good”.  I wonder how bad she really stinks!?  And if she does then yes, she very well could have anything from a yeast infection to an STD. 

    Did you know, back in the day women used to douche with a mix of Pledge (the brown can) and Vinegar…and then rinsed with hot water? 

    Also, in addition, there are little “freshness” wipes at Wally if she really think she smells that bad.

    But #1:  GYNO!

  • Douching is bad for you because it send all those bad things shooting up into your uterus. Not good!  I agree with what everyone else has said to this point.  Go talk to your gyno about it.

  • and its time for my daily mantra. Thank god I don’t have a vagina.

  • Honestly I have had the same problem.  I feel however, in my situation it is because I am very sensitive down there.  I get a lot of infections.  If I take a bath, there’s an infection… ok, I think you get the point.  Anywho.. douching is NOT healthy, no matter what any body says.  My boyfriend loves it down there.. not to sound graphic, but he says even after a day of walking around, he loves the fact that I’m natural.  I think some of us women need to just relax and not be so self conscious.

  • I thought douching was alright but only in moderation, like after your period; to get all the yuckies out. But I could be wrong. I’ve only done it once. I agree with whomever said the thing about girls thinking it smells but it doesn’t. /shrug. Sometimes I get insecure about it but every guy that’s been downtown seems to like it =)

  • Good advice, yea, stinky vaginas aren’t the norm…

  • @vanedave - My best friend tells me he wakes up every morning and the first thing he does is thank God he’s a man.   *giggle*

  • Hmmm. I find it odd that your advice seems to have simply been, “You shouldn’t be smelly down there. You probably have a form of Vaginitis.” She didn’t say she does smell, but that she thinks she does.

    I would suggest that it is less likely to be a physical ailment, and more likely to be psychological. Either relating to low self-esteem, or an inherent belief that sexual behaviour is a fundamentally unclean activity. The fact that her boyfriend doesn’t seem to have detected a smell, and her compulsive and regular douching suggests to me her problem lies a little north of the equator.

  • @NikBv - you find it odd? why would i assume she has a psychological problem. I find THAT odd!

  • @SnippiesBlog - I just stated why in my previous comment… she gave no actual indication of a physical problem in her question, but a number of psychological indications. That doesn’t mean that she has some massive debilitating psychological illness, of course, but that her worry about her own smell is just that – a worry, not an actuality.

    Once again, she didn’t say she actually smelled anything. She didn’t say her boyfriend smelled anything, and she did say he continued to be eager to attempt to perform such activities as would put him in close proximity to any such smell as might exist.

    She did, however, describe repeated and regular cleaning activities commonly acknowledged to be unhealthy, and a fear of odour that seems unfounded according to her comment. She repeatedly states that she feels like she smells.

    Surely all of these things are strong indicators of a psychological difficulty, given the information presented above?

    My ‘assumption’ of psychological difficulty was more based on her
    comment than was your immediate assumption of physical illness.

  • douching is not good at all. You shoot all the bad things up your uterus, and also will wash out the natural flaura and fauna that keeps most infections out.
    Have you asked your so if he doesn’t like the way you smell? He may not think it’s bad.

  • @NikBv - First off…I don’t think this blog is a subsitute for any doctor’s advice whatsoever.  Snippie is just giving her two cents in the matter.  Secondly…I guess it’s a comfort to know that if your blogging endeavors should fail you…you can always turn to psychiatry as a profession.  Most women feel as if they “smell” sometimes.  It’s a natural thing…and I’m sorry….but if you don’t have a vagina…then I don’t see how you can understand (not bashing any of you men…I’m just saying).  Like any other ailment (be it physically or psychologically), if you feel like something is wrong then speak with a MEDICAL DOCTOR about it.

  • @NikBv -  Whether it is a psychological problem or not, the girl needs to get to her gyno for various reasons. First of all the gyno is trained to notice psychological issues and can refer her to a psychologist if the need presents itself. Secondly, she has been douching apparently for quite some time now and has probably done a fair bit of damage. The likelihood that she does have something going on south of the equator is very high. Thirdly, if there is something going on down there, the gyno will be able to put her on medication that will correct the problem and will be able to effectively tell her to stop douching.

    Finally, do us all a favor and stay out of stuff that you have no need commenting on.

  • @NikBv - i’ve noticed before that when i eat certain cereals in the morning that my vagina smells like them….i know some people say that asparagus makes them smell bad….there’s a possibility that she THINKS she smells bad and it’s based on that.  HOWEVER, all women, no matter who they are should have regular pap smears to be sure there are no infections. 

    On a personal note, I had pain in my side once and after a full abdomen scan they noticed my filopian tubes were inflamed…normally related to STDs but after further tests and investigation they found a massive tumor. 

    I think whether a person THINKS they smell or they really do smell…the best thing to do is get checked.  Better safe than sorry. 

  • @NikBv - from the comments  you have made i find is safe to assume that
    you are in fact some type of psychologist! in which case you basing you
    remedy off of a 5 sentence question would make so much sense.  Now that
    i think of it…it does make a whole heap of sence that since i think
    trash is dirty i automatically think i smell stinky! HA by George
    you’ve done it! Now all we have to do is think our stink away and there
    is no need for any further deliberation! thank you so much kind sir…

  • Who are you calling a douche?

    Oh, wait.

    Nevermind.

  • Shower, shower, shower! Never douche. And bathing in a tub ALOT is bad for you. Y? Because the water goes up there…. Once in awhile, baths are okay.

  • @CiaoBella810 - That makes very little sense. Nobody was suggesting that thought resulted in action (and I imagine in your case it doesn’t).One can only think their stink away if their stink is imagined in the first place. Which, again, I don’t think relates too well to you.

    @jediwa72 - Indeed. I agree that it is generally better to be safe than sorry, and that visiting a doctor for check-ups can be healthy. It was not that that I disagreed with, but merely SnippiesBlog’s immediate assumption that something was physically wrong despite no evidence to suggest it. While the bland and mutedly repetitive advice of ‘go see a doctor’ may be safe (for the one proffering the advice) it is hardly helpful.

    @lizheartshakespeare - I appreciate your brashness. I don’t care what they say, you are not a completely blithering idiot. However, let us not confuse a gyn with a psychologist. While visiting a gyn regularly may in fact be helpful for many, I doubt it’s the idal place to go for psychological advice. Then again, neither is a blog. The point here is that one shouldn’t really be visitng the gyn to tell them whether they need to go to a psychologist. Also, you seem to be suggesting that visitng the gyn would be important mostly because of the douching. While this may, in fact, be a valid point (well done!) it wasn’t exactly the one made by SnippiesBlog in the original entry. Finally, do us all a favour, and keep your mindless and assinine blather to a minimum. I haven’t the faintest idea why you would imagine this to be something I might have no need to comment on. I benevolently share my semi-divine wisdom with all who need it, even if they haven’t the prescience to ask. Such is the burden of being me.

    @Millsanicole - I appreciate your vote of confidence, but who says I’m not in psychiatry right now? Blogging is hardly a full-time career, you know. Secondly, who says I don’t have a viagina? I never remember stating that I was a man. Remember what they say happens when you assume. However, I think you are right in that this isn’t the place for actual medical advice; it’s just some random blogger putting in their two cents, which is, my dear, exactly what is happening right now. (ironically, the definination of ‘two cents’ is actually unsolicited advice, but the former is often forgotten)

  • I bought some potato chips this  morning.  They tasted good.  I like potato chips.

  • @NikBv - Who is calling me a blithering idiot? If they are they have not done so to my face and I think they are a spineless prick for doing so. To me it sounds like you are calling me that, but don’t have the balls to say it to my face. That being said, I have to take issue with you. While a gyno is not specifically trained in the area of psychology, they are trained to notice certain signs of psychological disorders, and MANY insurance companies require some sort of referral from a doctor before allowing a patient to see a psychologist. It sucks, but that is the truth. Whether or not this is the case for the young woman’s insurance is another matter that none of us know. Secondly, while the reasoning behind snippie making the recommendation to go see a gyno may or may not have been different than my own, it is still good advice to follow, and she should have not been attacked for doing so.

  • @NikBv - What the hell is your problem? I’m just trying to help the girl with some advice. Why are you taking this so fucking seriously? Why don’t you psycho babble people on your own blog and leave mine alone!!! 

  • @SnippiesBlog - Wow, who would have guessed you’d be so controversial?! LOL. I think that you’re doing a fine job of opening up the dialogue on subjects most people are embarrassed to touch. Great job! 

  • @lizheartshakespeare - I don’t think you’re a blithering idiot :)

  • is it really gyno? in the field, we call it gyne (pronounced gynee)…

Post a Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *