November 16, 2008
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Dear Snippie #11 (Is it better when you’re mad?)
Question:
I have heard from a lot of people that sex is better when you’re mad at each other…..but i have never tried it….is it true?Answer:
It’s not really when you’re mad at each other that the sex is good. It’s when you make up that it’s better. Really, who wants to have sex when you’re mad at someone. Not me. That’s the last thing I would want to be doing.
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Comments (25)
yeah… we say “angry sex”, but it’s the making up process and renewing your love that makes it good…
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I think it may be all the adrenaline that comes with being upset that helps to make things intense? I dunno for sure.
It’s not the anger that makes post-fight sex best; it’s the re-birth of the love … for a brief moment, it feels exactly as it did the FIRST time. Mmmm …
I have heard of couples who fight just so that they can make up! M
This reminds me of that scene from Mr. and Mrs. Smith where they have sex after trying to kill each other.
sex is sometimes used to bury real problems, like an emotional band aid.
not to bring the mood down or anything !
True, Snippie…I think it has to do with the fact that you build up so much agression and then you get to let it all out…aggressively!
I don’t like fighting and I definitely don’t think that it makes the sex better!
Personally, I always liked the angry make-up sex, just because I can be as aggressive as I want without freaking him out. I can scream, claw, bite, and just let all the pent up anger I have out. It’s good therapy.
I dunno, I think that the angry-make-up sex is better than regular make-up sex.
@simply_steffy - agreed! Just thinking of all the agression like spanking, pinching, and biting on each other is hot as hell!
@wallsocketnose - hehehe
… to have sex when you r mad feels worse then if you are happy cause r mind is on the anger ratherthen the love you two are showing.
“Make-up sex” is pretty great.
Dude, angry sex rocks.
if i’m genuinely mad at my husband (which rarely happens), the last thing i’d want to do is have sex with him. and i agree that sometimes couples use sex as a bandaid for legitimate relationship problems.
on the other hand, if i’m just grouchy (which happens often enough right now, since i’m pregnant and hormonal), having sex definately makes me feel better- even if i’m irritated (and even if it seems like it’s with him) when we start he can almost always change my mind.
i guess that’s about as close to angry sex as i get.
sometimes, i think sex is good if the other person would shut the hell up… does that count as being mad? the guy was a loser! he would say random things AND told me he wouldn’t go down on me often… as he was going down on me… uh, then don’t expect me to go down on you anymore a*hole!
i sound angry now.. .maybe i should have some sex… lol
@aint_yo_gurl - lol
@colustan91 - HOT! lol
“angry sex” is for people who don’t know how to D/s
@RaVnR - who says angry sex doesn’t involve whips and candles?
isnt angry sex when you think sex is going to be good; you do it; its not good; and afterwards you get pissed off……….
It depends on why you are mad eachother…
Make-Up sex is good, but it ya’ll are mad at each other it’s not pleasant because you’ve still got the anger inside you and can sometimes take it out on the other person doing that
hell make up sex is great!! its awesome!!!